Spending time alone makes one a better companion to others
In the officious lives we lead today, privacy is a forgotten luxury. One is forced to live his life in the open and the 'herd-tendency' is causing people to blindly ape others around them. Clearly, today people are brought together more due to the fear of being left behind than out of camaraderie. All the turmoil of modern-day strained relationships could be alluded to this lack of genuine warmth among people.
It is often said - "Familiarity breeds contempt". The very fact that we force ourselves into the company of others explains the lack of goodwill among people that cause the eventual fallout we have with our companions. It is therefore imperative to set apart time for ourselves, to give ourselves some space and time for introspection, in order to develop into a better companion to others.
Pursuing fine arts at leisure, listening to music, indulging in one's hobby are some of the activities best done alone, that transport an individual to a different world altogether and relieve him of all frustrations that might otherwise be unwisely vent out on people around him. Reading a good book is a wise investment of time spent alone, as it not only enriches one's knowledge but also can also prove to be a refreshing experience that transforms one into a better person capable of offering guidance to others in need of it and able to appreciate their accomplishments. Sometimes sitting alone doing nothing, reliving a vivid memory, letting one's imagination blossom into creativity can help a person understand and appreciate others around him.
It is said that a true friend must share one's happiness and sorrow equally. But most of us prefer to be left alone either when we are over-whelmed after any great success, or when we grieve some inconsolable bereavement. This clearly tells us that one must guard one's private moments, just as one must learn to respect other people's need for space. Notwithstanding the fact that Man is a social animal, the truth remains that it is always best to look inwards for inspiration. This will help us a better human whose company will be eagerly sought and cherished by others.
It is often said - "Familiarity breeds contempt". The very fact that we force ourselves into the company of others explains the lack of goodwill among people that cause the eventual fallout we have with our companions. It is therefore imperative to set apart time for ourselves, to give ourselves some space and time for introspection, in order to develop into a better companion to others.
Pursuing fine arts at leisure, listening to music, indulging in one's hobby are some of the activities best done alone, that transport an individual to a different world altogether and relieve him of all frustrations that might otherwise be unwisely vent out on people around him. Reading a good book is a wise investment of time spent alone, as it not only enriches one's knowledge but also can also prove to be a refreshing experience that transforms one into a better person capable of offering guidance to others in need of it and able to appreciate their accomplishments. Sometimes sitting alone doing nothing, reliving a vivid memory, letting one's imagination blossom into creativity can help a person understand and appreciate others around him.
It is said that a true friend must share one's happiness and sorrow equally. But most of us prefer to be left alone either when we are over-whelmed after any great success, or when we grieve some inconsolable bereavement. This clearly tells us that one must guard one's private moments, just as one must learn to respect other people's need for space. Notwithstanding the fact that Man is a social animal, the truth remains that it is always best to look inwards for inspiration. This will help us a better human whose company will be eagerly sought and cherished by others.
posted by venki at 5:05 PM
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Everything that is really great and inspiring is created by the individual who can labor in freedom. -- Albert Einstein
."You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection."
-- Buddha
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